this morning in my facebook feed i saw a post about spanking and not liking the behavior of a child. i was spanked as a kid. it made me feel small, sad, afraid, and hurt-shamed. when i had children i knew there was another way, a way to LOVE without hurting. i choose love and connection. it makes new pathways to you and your kids learning together.

Here is a link to the Enjoyparenting blog. It’s a great resource to seeing the world of parenting differently, life differently really. 

http://www.enjoyparenting.com/daily-groove/love-the-behavior